Anyone who has spent any time learning about seducing women online has invariably come across advertisements about seduction bootcamp. Usually these things take up a weekend and cost anywhere from a couple hundred dollars to thousands. This often times doesn’t even cover lodging, food and travel expenses as well. It may seem like a tremendous waste of time and money, specially when there is so much information to be had online either free or for a fraction of the cost. Like anything else, there are good things and potential bad things to spending a large sum of money to attend one of these things.
Many guys who get into the online pick-up community often become married to the first system or guru they stumble upon. This may be a good thing if you just so happen to stumble upon a teacher who happens to teach a system that addresses a particular sticking point you have, or who is of the same stock as you. This is why it is very important not only to read what several different teachers have to say, it is also important that you have already begun to get your ass out there and try to implement some of this stuff. Personally, I would never dress up like Mystery and go around performing magic tricks, telling stories or perform ‘negs’ from the mystery method. That’s not me, and if I where to try and implement a lot of his game, it would come across as incongruent. Don’t get me wrong, the man has done wonders to advance pick up as we know it today. And if what he does appeals to you, by all means you should follow his program. The man revolutionized the pick-up game as we know it today.
This brings me to my next point. Many guys live in smaller communities and may not have friends who are driven to stick their necks out in order to learn how to seduce women. Or perhaps some guys feel they need to commit in a serious way before they are able to muster up the courage to actually get out there and start approaching. In these instances, it is well worth forking over a couple thousand dollars if it is going to mean that they are finally going to do something to handle their ’situation’.
Something that many guys who learn from material online don’t get from electronic media is the experience of watching a seasoned pick up artist at work. It’s one thing to read about these techniques, and to even go out and have some success with them. It’s a completely different story to watch a master at work, first hand. Even more effective to have one whispering in your ear, showing you how to tweak what you are doing for even greater success with women. It can be incredibly motivating to see in person what is possible. In my opinion, this, next to live instruction from a teacher who is there to witness you in action is the greatest benefit for the first timer who is interested in attending a seduction boot camp.
Whether or not attending a seduction bootcamp is a worthwhile pursuit largely depends on a person’s motivations for doing so. The only reason why I would say that attending one wouldn’t be a worthwhile endeavor, minus financial reasons, would be if the person was attending a bootcamp being taught from an incompatable teacher. But even then, I would rather attend a couple of seduction boot camps that weren’t suited to me than not go to any at all. Be aware that you will probably receive the greatest benefit if you are already going out and trying to test and apply some of this stuff. But don’t let that stop you if you are currently unable to get over your approach anxiety — I know of a few guys who had to fork out some money in order to make a commitment to themselves and finally get off their asses and learn how to do this the right way. If you are on the fence, and unsure whether or not a seduction boot camp is for you, that probably means that you are just the person who would gain the most benefit from one. Do a bit of research, make a commitment to yourself and GO!
