If you read my last article on how to pick up beautiful women, you may have been left feeling like the goods haven’t been delivered. I can assure you, that if you master the qualities listed in that article, you will find yourself succeeding with women and pick-up a lot quicker than if I provided you with any specific technique. Learning this stuff is a job that often requires changing from the inside out. Many guys who get into this stuff say that it changes their lives in ways they never imagined. My experience has been the same as well. What I am going to do in this article is to provide a rough frame that needs to happen from the time you first see a woman until the point your ‘relationship’ is consummated. Whether you choose to pursue a relationship, a friendship or move on afterwards, having sex IS the goal. Your power and your options are usually as open as they are going to get after you have slept with a woman for the first time.
The first step in how to pick up beautiful women starts before you get your ass out where the women are. Clean yourself. Trim hair, floss, brush teeth… You need to take care of the little details. Thats one of the things that separates women from men. By nature, women are programmed to read into little details. My guess is that it is a neccisary trait for rearing children. If you’ve got a little hole in your shirt, change it. Women will notice little things like this, and make judgements about you because of them. Believe it!
You have crossed your T’s and dotted your I’s. You’ve got on clean drawers, and your bathroom is spotless ’cause you know there’s a damned good chance you are going to bring home a pretty lady. You’d be surprised how many guys go out to pick up women, but don’t have condoms or a place in mind to go if they actually pick someone up. You need to think about these things!
Anyways, you go to whatever venue that is populated with the kind of girls you want to meet. You’ve got yourself in a happy, sociable mood and have warmed yourself up by interacting with just about anyone who has made eye contact with you.
You know what you are looking for, right? You walk by the girl and she has got a body that calls out to you. You make a quick survey of the land and take note of what she is doing. What’s her posture like? Who is she talking to? Is she drunk? Is she a part of a bachelor party? etc… You don’t just walk by a woman, get an erection and then run in. A quick approach is good, this is how you learn how to pick up beautiful women, you need to paying attention to everything that is going on and learn from the feedback that is given to you by your environment.
You approach, there’s a right way to do this- and it’s second nature for you at this point. You open with … doesn’t matter what you open with, you’re in state. Just about anything you could say is gonna come out alright because your words, your body language and even the way you dress, it all conveys that you are a high value guy and you are here to bring a good time.
You play at first, you aren’t there to interview so you aren’t asking boring questions about work or any of that nonsense. You are waiting to see that she is invested in the interaction and shows some interest. You wait to give her your name until she asks. You wait to get into the personal stuff until its the right time.
Part III of How To Pick Up Beautiful Women will go into what happens after you have established that the girl is attracted and it’s time to move into building comfort (that is, unless she’s one of them party girls who is looking for a same night lay!)
