If you want to learn how to pick up beautiful women, reading a couple of posts on the internet isn’t going to be enough. Learning to be successful with women comes from a combination of questioning your beliefs, interacting with many women on a frequent basis, pushing your limits, guidance from those who know coupled with generous amounts of humility and self honesty. Getting good with women is a tough sport.
Among the many beliefs you will find yourself questioning when you learn how to pick up beautiful women, one of the main beliefs that will have to be questioned will have to do with what you have learned from your environment with regards to what it takes. Television, feminists, other men, movies…. there have been so many things that have influenced your belief system up and to this day that have had a negative impact on your ability to do well with women.
Probably the biggest roadblock many guys face when they first begin to try and learn how to meet women is approach anxiety. Often times, they won’t even realize that what is holding them back is fear. The thought of approach and rejection can stir up such powerful emotions that many won’t even recognize where their objections to getting out there and approaching women are coming from. This can materialize as excuses of all kinds, from having things to do around the house to projecting negative feelings towards women. For some, they believe it is better not to try and risk rejection than chase after the reward of a deeply rewarding skill set.
Another point that needs to be addressed when learning how to pick up beautiful women is overcoming limits. This is just another form of self limiting belief but it is insidious. Most of us have no idea what we are capable of. We believe that only so much is possible, so we don’t even try. Often it isn’t even a matter of fear, but a vague knowing that we aren’t capable of accomplishing something. What is usually needed to push through these barriers is guidance from people who are exceptional at what they do. In this case, a guy who is both good a seducing women as well as being able to articulate what he is doing. There are many guys who are good at getting women, but couldn’t tell you what it is they are doing to save their life.
The final thing that ties all of this together, is self honesty and humility. In my book, these are the same qualities. If you have enough desire to push yourself and get out there and approach women often, you will have no other choice but to learn some humility. Even super attractive men have to deal with rejection. Even pick up artists like Mystery (of Mind Of Mystery) deal with rejection. In fact, what makes these guys so good with women is because of the fact that they have likely delt with more rejection than hundreds of men combined! Think about it. Think about what kind of self image you need to have in order to deal with rejection on such a large scale, and be able to learn from it. It is the only way to learn how to pick up beautiful women.
