If you read my last article on how to pick up beautiful women, you may have been left feeling like the goods haven’t been delivered.  I can assure you, that if you master the qualities listed in that article, you will find yourself succeeding with women and pick-up a lot quicker than if I provided you with any specific technique.  Learning this stuff is a job that often requires changing from the inside out.  Many guys who get into this stuff say that it changes their lives in ways they never imagined.  My experience has been the same as well.  What I am going to do in this article is to provide a rough frame that needs to happen from the time you first see a woman until the point your ‘relationship’ is consummated.  Whether you choose to pursue a relationship, a friendship or move on afterwards, having sex IS the goal.  Your power and your options are usually as open as they are going to get after you have slept with a woman for the first time.

The first step in how to pick up beautiful women starts before you get your ass out where the women are.  Clean yourself.  Trim hair, floss, brush teeth…  You need to take care of the little details.  Thats one of the things that separates women from men.  By nature, women are programmed to read into little details.  My guess is that it is a neccisary trait for rearing children.  If you’ve got a little hole in your shirt, change it.  Women will notice little things like this, and make judgements about you because of them.  Believe it!

You have crossed your T’s and dotted your I’s.  You’ve got on clean drawers, and your bathroom is spotless ’cause you know there’s a damned good chance you are going to bring home a pretty lady.  You’d be surprised how many guys go out to pick up women, but don’t have condoms or a place in mind to go if they actually pick someone up.  You need to think about these things!

Anyways, you go to whatever venue that is populated with the kind of girls you want to meet.  You’ve got yourself in a happy, sociable mood and have warmed yourself up by interacting with just about anyone who has made eye contact with you.

You know what you are looking for, right?  You walk by the girl and she has got a body that calls out to you.  You make a quick survey of the land and take note of what she is doing.  What’s her posture like?  Who is she talking to?  Is she drunk?  Is she a part of a bachelor party? etc…  You don’t just walk by a woman, get an erection and then run in.  A quick approach is good, this is how you learn how to pick up beautiful women, you need to paying attention to everything that is going on and learn from the feedback that is given to you by your environment.

You approach, there’s a right way to do this- and it’s second nature for you at this point.  You open with … doesn’t matter what you open with, you’re in state.  Just about anything you could say is gonna come out alright because your words, your body language and even the way you dress, it all conveys that you are a high value guy and you are here to bring a good time.

You play at first, you aren’t there to interview so you aren’t asking boring questions about work or any of that nonsense.  You are waiting to see that she is invested in the interaction and shows some interest.  You wait to give her your name until she asks.  You wait to get into the personal stuff until its the right time.

Part III of How To Pick Up Beautiful Women will go into what happens after you have established that the girl is attracted and it’s time to move into building comfort (that is, unless she’s one of them party girls who is looking for a same night lay!)

As with any type of interactive seminar, there are particular things you can do to get the most out of a seduction bootcamp.  Follow these tips in order to get the most out of your money at one of these events.

• Get plenty of rest the night before.  Actually, the night before that!  Studies have shown that your ability to function mentally is more dependent on the rest you got two nights before an event than the day of!
• Eat a good breakfast and bring water.  This is self explanatory.
• Review your motivation for going to the boot camp before you go.  Make a short list of your current sticking points so that you know what needs work.  This will help you ask better directed questions and as a result you will get more out of the event.  Your focus will improve as well, having a purpose in mind will prevent you from daydreaming and feeling scatterbrained when information overload happens.
• Bring writing utensils and a notebook.  Most seduction boot camps will provide these for you, but it never hurts to be prepared just in case.
• During class time, write down questions as they come to you.  Sometimes you won’t be able to ask questions right away, if you don’t write them down, there is a good chance you may forget later on.  Writing the question will also help jog your memory when you go back and review your notes.  This will help you retain the information better.
• Hold off on socializing until after ‘class’.  This is pretty self explanatory.  You don’t want to be the douche bag who is interfering with every one else’s experience.  You can show them how special you are after learning time is over.
• Don’t write down every word the teacher says.  There is a tendency for a lot of guys to try and capture every idea that comes out of a teachers mouth.  You will miss a lot of points if you are too busy hustling to try and write everything down.  If it is allowed, and you are too anal retentive to trust your memory, bring a recorder so you can relax and soak in all of the information.
• Perform a quick review immediately after any classroom discussion.  This can also be done during short breaks.  You will retain information a lot better if you force yourself to perform some kind of review.  Studies suggest that the optimal way to do this is immediately after the information is presented, later that night, then a few days after that.  Find what works for you.
• When it comes time to go out in the field, leave the notebook behind.  Make sure to ‘debrief’ at the end of the night.  This is vitally important.  You  may want to take notes about what the teacher has to say about your performance.  Almost all seduction bootcamps do this, if the one you are planning on attending doesn’t, I would suggest looking for another.

Follow these tips and you will get more return on investment from your seduction boot camp experience.

Anyone who has spent any time learning about seducing women online has invariably come across advertisements about seduction bootcamp.  Usually these things take up a weekend and cost anywhere from a couple hundred dollars to thousands.  This often times doesn’t even cover lodging, food and travel expenses as well.  It may seem like a tremendous waste of time and money, specially when there is so much information to be had online either free or for a fraction of the cost.  Like anything else, there are good things and potential bad things to spending a large sum of money to attend one of these things.

Many guys who get into the online pick-up community often become married to the first system or guru they stumble upon.  This may be a good thing if you just so happen to stumble upon a teacher who happens to teach a system that addresses a particular sticking point you have, or who is of the same stock as you.  This is why it is very important not only to read what several different teachers have to say, it is also important that you have already begun to get your ass out there and try to implement some of this stuff.  Personally, I would never dress up like Mystery and go around performing magic tricks, telling stories or perform ‘negs’ from the mystery method.  That’s not me, and if I where to try and implement a lot of his game, it would come across as incongruent.  Don’t get me wrong, the man has done wonders to advance pick up as we know it today.  And if what he does appeals to you, by all means you should follow his program.  The man revolutionized the pick-up game as we know it today.

This brings me to my next point.  Many guys live in smaller communities and may not have friends who are driven to stick their necks out in order to learn how to seduce women.  Or perhaps some guys feel they need to commit in a serious way before they are able to muster up the courage to actually get out there and start approaching.  In these instances, it is well worth forking over a couple thousand dollars if it is going to mean that they are finally going to do something to handle their ’situation’.

Something that many guys who learn from material online don’t get from electronic media is the experience of watching a seasoned pick up artist at work.  It’s one thing to read about these techniques, and to even go out and have some success with them.  It’s a completely different story to watch a master at work, first hand.  Even more effective to have one whispering in your ear, showing you how to tweak what you are doing for even greater success with women.  It can be incredibly motivating to see in person what is possible.  In my opinion, this, next to live instruction from a teacher who is there to witness you in action is the greatest benefit for the first timer who is interested in attending a seduction boot camp.

Whether or not attending a seduction bootcamp is a worthwhile pursuit largely depends on a person’s motivations for doing so.  The only reason why I would say that attending one wouldn’t be a worthwhile endeavor, minus financial reasons, would be if the person was attending a bootcamp being taught from an incompatable teacher.  But even then, I would rather attend a couple of seduction boot camps that weren’t suited to me than not go to any at all.  Be aware that you will probably receive the greatest benefit if you are already going out and trying to test and apply some of this stuff.  But don’t let that stop you if you are currently unable to get over your approach anxiety — I know of a few guys who had to fork out some money in order to make a commitment to themselves and finally get off their asses and learn how to do this the right way.  If you are on the fence, and unsure whether or not a seduction boot camp is for you, that probably means that you are just the person who would gain the most benefit from one.  Do a bit of research, make a commitment to yourself and GO!