A whole subset of seduction is devoted to dating and using internet dating agencies to meet and seduce women online.  Using dating agencies is considered to be something of a shortcut to many people in the pick-up community.  There are a few reasons why using these dating sites can be considered good, specially for those who are still too timid to make cold approaches or for some reason cant find the time to go out into public venues to meet women.  There are also huge drawbacks to using this technique for those who wish to learn how to seduce women in real life.  Having a clear picture of your personal motivation should help you choose whether or not using internet dating agencies is the right choice for you.

Many guys lead busy lives and find that after they have tended to work, working out, dealing with family and friends and whatever else they have going on in their life, that devoting time to going out and meeting people is last on their list.  Many of these people have little interest in learning pick-up for the sake of getting good at seduction.  These are the ideal candidates for using internet dating agencies to learn how to seduce women .  This is about as close of a shortcut to getting with women that you are going to get next to picking up a prostitute.  Don’t get me wrong here, I am not trying to imply that these sites are basically like paying for sex.  LOL, though I have heard some of my buddies who use these dating sites joke that for a small fee, they find sleeping with women from dating sites to be about as difficult as shooting fish in a bucket.

The hidden dark side of using internet dating agencies is that it removes the element of meeting complete strangers.  Believe me, approaching women is good medicine.  It is humbling, challenging and a thrill all in one.  It builds character, and it is an essential skill for the guy who wants to learn how to get good with women to the point that he can see a woman any where, any time, and feel confident taking a shot at seducing her.  Even those guys who would be content with finding that ‘one girl’ and settling down would find a huge benefit within a committed relationship not suffering from a scarcity mentality.  Seducing women removes that vital element.

There are good reasons and bad reasons to use online dating agencies to pick up women.  What makes it a good or a bad thing for you largely depends on your motivation for wanting to meet women in the first place.  If you don’t have the time, means or ability to encounter women in real life, or if you believe you want to settle down once you find ‘the one’, then dating may be right for you.  If you are looking to develop a skillset with regards to meeting and seducing women, you need to make sure you have first learned how to approach women before you begin to rely on seducing women .  You will find that you can cheat yourself of some bitter medicine by using these agencies as a means to pick up women.

The advent of online dating is a mixed bag in terms of helping men become good at picking up and seducing women.  Online chatrooms and dating sites have become the new pick up spots online.  Many of the skills that are required to pick up a woman in a face to face situation are negated by the anonymous nature of the internet.  There is, however, an upside to this.  This article is going to discuss some of the pro’s and con’s of seducing women online.

One of the most appealing, yet destructive things about meeting women online is the fact that guys don’t have to subject themselves to the discomfort of feeling outright rejection face to face.  This is absolutely one of the most horrible things about hiding behind a computer and I will tell you why.  Not only does using the computer as a crutch hurt men by allowing them to avoid subjecting and desensitizing themselves to humbling experiences, it prevents them from acquiring the social skills necessary to navigate real life interactions once they finally meet some of these women that they have been chatting with online.  Text, emails, chat rooms, they all afford you pause to think and plan out your replies and what you want to say to the other person.  Real life face to face interaction is a living thing that requires quick reflexes and a sensitivity that can never be developed talking to women online.  Not to mention all of the subtleties that are communicated through body language.  No amount of reading on the net is going to prepare you like real life interaction out there in ‘the field’.

On the flip side of all of this, there is a lot that can be learned, and a lot of time conserved interacting with women online.  For many men, specially those with considerable approach anxiety, sometimes online communication is the only way they are going to meet women period.  That is OK too!  Everybody has to start somewhere and we aren’t going to get anywhere if we are not honest with ourselves about where we are right now.  Another benefit of online dating, is the fact that many of us who know exactly what we want can weed out women who don’t fit our criteria without having to waste a lot of time sifting through undesirables.  There are many alternative dating sites out there which will help make sure that the women we are meeting fall within our dating criteria.  Someone who has a thing for midget-amputees or who wants to be defiled by a dominatrix may have a rough go of things if they are surfing for women on a conservative christian dating service.  Of course, a service like this may be good for someone who is learning how to seduce christian women.

The point of this article, is not only to say that online dating is a mixed bag when it comes to learning how to seduce women, but what is most important is that you are honest with yourself as to why you are using it as a tool to meet women.

SIDE NOTE:

The ultimate ‘formula’ for seducing christian women is the same as it is for seducing midget amputees.  Seduction isn’t so much about jumping specific hoops for specific women.  What attracts a woman is specific to her, and will have VERY LITTLE to do with many of the external factors you may think it does.

Remember this:  People have no control who they are attracted to…  Attraction is not a choice, it is an emotion!

The goal with seduction is to become a seductive individual, it is an inside job.  You can not learn how to seduce a christian woman, what you can learn is how to become attractive to all women, thus increasing your odds at seducing that particular woman you are attracted to.  The very act of focusing on one particular woman feeds the scarcity mentality which may seem to be what society calls ‘romantic’ but is ultimately UNATTRACTIVE and will get in your way towards seducing that particular christian woman you are pining after!